I love sex, but I'm more interested in extra-marital--short- or long-term--relationships. In the bedroom, I tend to like traditional, straight forward, some very light kinky sex. I also wouldn't mind experimenting a little.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because I'm not looking to get out of my marriage...just add some spice to it. I'm looking for a who is sensual--likes touching and candles and massage. Also, one who thinks foreplay is important. I love lots of foreplay before going straight to making love.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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