[COLOR teal]I have realistic expectations regarding this site. I think most men here on AFF go through the same learning process. Most of us join this site thinking, "OK, there are thousands of hot, horny women here looking for sex." We set up our profiles and wait for the offers to flood our inboxes. It usually doesn’t work out that way. The next step in the process is what I refer to as carpet bombing. We think, "Alright, the thousands of hot, horny women here haven't run to me with offers of sex, so I will contact ALL of them." We write a generic email highlighting our skills and abilities and generally include a statement like, "Let's fuck." Copy, paste and send to every female aged 18 to 60 and within 50 a mile radius... Then we wait for the flood of acceptance letters that will surely arrive. Since most of the women here are not waiting by their computer hoping that some random guy propositions them, that usually doesn’t go as planned either. Because the stampede of hot, horny women hasn't materialized yet, the next step in the process is for us to get surgical. That means we actually start reading profiles. No, not reading for comprehension... Just reading enough to pick out a few key words and create a custom "Let's Fuck" email for each recipient. And since many of the guys here never progress out of stage one or two, the custom email can get some responses. However, the responses don't lead anywhere because the profile wasn't really read, and the woman is looking for something completely different. I have had the fortune of meeting some interesting women here, even with the imperal emails and overt rudeness of "Let's Fuck" propositions (I can describe stages one, two and three because I was there). I enjoy those relationships, even though most never lead to sex. I guess that means I have progressed to stage four. The details of stage four are still a little murky... Maybe I will be able to define it better at a later date. So far, it means that I read profiles (READ them) and try to limit my emails only to women who seem to be a match. It isn't as much fun as carpet bombing... I may only send one or two emails a day, but at least I am not overloading the servers anymore. I'm not sure if there is a stage five. If there is and if it follows the same trend, then stage five will either involve me joining a monastery or expanding my search out to a thousand mile radius searching for the one or two who happen to be looking for the same things I am. Many women here offer advice and critique to men regarding our spelling, profiles, or emails. So, I would like to return the favor. Ladies, if you are not looking for casual sex, please do not select a screen name such as "Looking_to_fuck_now" or something similar. I'm a man, and that confuses me. If you're not looking for casual sex, you may not want to put a picture of you with legs spread and pleasuring yourself with a dildo... Again, I'm a man and that confuses me.[/COLOR] [COLOR red]WARNING: Any institution using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum either current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.[/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I am still looking for that hot, horny woman. Preferably, she will be in the same situation I am, married but looking for a relationship outside that marriage. I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because I am not interested in changing my life right now; I am just interested in adding some spice to it. We exchange emails and chat and see where it leads. Great intimacy is the product of a genuine connection between two people. If the spark is there and the relationship progresses to a physical level, great. If not, then we enjoy the conversation and continue our search. Don't get me wrong, I would not turn down a quickie if offered But I would like a little more.

Physical attraction is important, but I want to meet a woman who has more going on for her than her looks. I am attracted to personalities, and I want someone who can make good conversation, likes to laugh, has a playful side and a wild side, too.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A fantasy come true for me would be hot sex with two women,
or sex with a married woman while her husband watched.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Who hasn't thought about a celebrity at least once?
If I had my pick, I would take Sandra Bullock. She is very
sexy with a girl-next-door quality. She also gets bonus
points because she does not act too promiscuous.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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