***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects or peral distribution- - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. UPDATE: August 19, 2013 I HAVE BEEN AWAY FOR A FEW YEARS (BUT NOT TOTALLY OUT OF ACTION), AND I FEEL THE NEED TO UPDATE MY FRIENDS/FOLLOWERS. NOTHING STAYS THE SAME FOREVER...EVERYTHING EVOLVES. WHEN I FIRST JOINED AFF, IN THE YEAR 2005, I WAS VERY INEXPERIENCED...NAIVE...ABOUT MANY THINGS IN LIFE...SEX, BEING ONLY ONE OF THEM. HOWEVER, I HAD BEEN ENLIGHTENED JUST ENOUGH TO PROMPT ME TO TAKE A CLOSER LOOK INTO MY OWN SEXUALITY...TO TAKE THAT LEAP...TO LOOK WITHIN AND QUESTION OLD TABOOS, AND THAT TURNED OUT TO BE THE WISEST DECISION I HAD EVER MADE! I (AND MY HUBBY) CAN HONESTLY SAY TO ALL THAT IT HAS ENRICHED OUR MARRIAGE...OUR LIVES... IN EVERY WAY IMAGINABLE. NOW, MY HUBBY HAS TAKEN HIS LONG-DESERVED RETIREMENT AND WE HAVE BEGUN "LIVING THE DREAM"...TOGETHER. AND, ALTHOUGH HE IS NOT AS PASSIONATE ABOUT MEETING OTHERS, SEXUALLY, HE COMPLETELY UNDERSTANDS MY DESIRES AND NEED TO FURTHER EXPLORE MY OWN SEXUALITY. AND, OVER THE YEARS, I HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE DEVELOPED CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS WITH SOME PRETTY SPECIAL PEOPLE (MALES AS WELL AS M/F COUPLES) WHOM I HOPE TO KNOW ALL OF My LIFE! I LOVE MY HUSBAND DEARLY AND DEEPLY AND WOULDN'T CHANGE A THING IN OUR LIVES (OK, WELL, MAYBY I WOULD LIKE TO SEE THAT "HONEY-DO" LIST COMPLETED A LITTLE MORE QUICKLY...), BUT THAT'S ABOUT IT!) MY ORIGINAL PROFILE STATED THAT I REQUIRED MEETING WITH SOMEONE ON A WEEKLY BASIS (MINIMUM). HOWEVER, NOW THAT HUBBY IS HOME WITH ME, WE HAVE BEGUN OUR JOURNEY INTO ALL THINGS "RETIREMENT"...TRAVELING...REMODELING OUR HOME...SPENDING TIME ON OUR PORCH, LISTENING TO MUSIC, ADMIRING OUR GARDEN, AND JUST MAKING PLANS, IN GENERAL! HEY, IT JUST DOESN'T GET ANY BETTER THAN THIS, BUT I DOUBT THAT WE WOULD HAVE BEEN THIS HAPPY, HAD I NOT TAKEN THAT LEAP. SO, TO SUM UP, I STILL WANT TO MEET MEN (ATTACHED, OR NOT) AND POSSIBLY THE OCCASIONAL MALE/FEMALE COUPLE, FOR FURTHER ENLIGHTENMENT. IF YOU ARE SEXUALLY AWOKEN AND RESPECTFUL OF OTHERS LIMITS...THEN LET'S CONNECT. LIFE HAS JUST BEGUN!! WHO KNOWS...MAYBE YOU AND YOURS WILL JOIN US ON OUR PORCH SOME DAY! CARPE DIEM!! Hello! As you have probably already surmised by my opening summary....i am in to a bit of KINK. Please don't ask me WHAT kink i like. If you take the time to read ALL of my fetish checklist, you will know. And although it may suggest that i am quite kinky, please don't take that to mean that i want to fulfill them all on our first sexual encounter. Speaking of first encounters, i.e. our first meet, this will comprise of something NON-sexual. We will meet to establish not only chemistry, but alsoto have a sincere discussion about the type of relationship each of us wants. Myself, i require a caring, loving relationship that includes commitment...but the only commitment i need from YOU (as also spelled out below) is that you will be available on a regular and frequent basis AND that you will always treat me with respect. This requires a mature mind... REGARDLESS OF AGE! I no longer work outside the home, so have plenty of time to play. I have come to realize that I am bi-sexual and have had the opportunity to play with women on several occasions. Yes! I am definitely BI! I am also a happily married woman who just needs a little extra sexual spice in her life.....hubby just wants me to be happy and will not be joining in my/our outside fun. I am a strong-willed woman who loves to be controlled by an even stronger-willed dominant man! It is all about the fun; however, maturity and sensitivity are essential for all concerned. Do you love to explore? Play with toys? Touch and tease? Let your hair down and be open about your deepest desires as well as to mine?! I only wish I possessed more than 5 senses with which to enjoy all of life's little pleasures!

My Ideal Person I would like to find a single (or in an open relationship - i won't take part in hurting another) dominant man who can also be easy going.....who loves not only exploring sexuality and all the games and toys that can add to our mutual pleasure, but who thoroughly enjoys being tactile, sensual, and playful. Single females and couples are also welcome!/B]

Please be willing and able to meet a minimum of once weekly. What this pretty much translates to is "don't live so far away that you cannot come (or take me) the distance at least once a week". Also, i am not in to quickies - so forget the 2 - 3 hour romp in the nearby hotel/motel! Our play needs to include good conversation, good wine and good food, which will allow us the time and space to cultivate our very sexual relationship. And if i hear you say that you cannot take me to your home - you're OUT!LET ME MAKE THIS PERFECTLY CLEAR...IF YOU CANNOT HOST AT YOUR HOME...DO NOT CONTACT ME! It tells me that you are cheating on someone! Hey, life is too short to waste with secrets.....FIND yourself - BE yourself - and ENJOY yourself (and me )

OH! And please pay close attention to hygiene, i.e. shower and brush your teeth, daily! Thank you.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, just about anywhere where we're not supposed to!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, phone sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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