UPDATE: I took some time off after meeting some really interesting ladies, we've had great times, you know who you are... Now I'm back looking for a few new friends and new experiences... Single BM, 40's, six feet, slender athletic build, "straight" with eight thick inches that I know how to use. I'm an intelligent, well groomed, well educated, streetwise professional. Nice to look at, I'm always a gentleman even when I'm not.. I'm very discreet and everything stays between "us". Normally laid back and easy going, I like to laugh, have fun and enjoy the ladies I spend time. I am somewhat selective, I enjoy the company of classy, intelligent interesting women looking for someone different. Age is not a problem as long as you are interesting and come ready to enjoy the time we spend together. I like variety and like to flow with my female partners. Not interested in gang bangs, not my thing. I commute between northern NJ and northern CA every few months. I love to enjoy life and I'm drug and disease free.

My Ideal Person As I've stated I'm somewhat selective. I enjoy slender to average built ladies but a little extra padding or curvy works too. If you don't have a picture in your profile send one with your reply.