Call me a jerk if you like. My SO fought a courageous fight against cancer and is now in remission, with ongoing infusion treatments every three weeks. Her sex drive has disappeared. I have unfulfilled needs, but I’m not even sure if I can still enjoy and provide enjoyment since it’s been such a long time. I was on this site a few years ago and met some wonderful folks and had some very enjoyable encounters. I long for the feeling of skin on skin. Might you be someone who would be interested in some of the same things?