I am a graduate level educated respectful single male with about a decade of experience as part of a couple who enjoyed swing clubs and resorts. I like some light bdsm as a roleplay/prelude to sex, but am more just an "alpha who isnt a dick" type than "dom". I love being a third for couples, and as Im just a couple months out of a 2 yr relationship, Im open to finding a good ongoing partner in crime as well. I am recently tested, and always always use condoms. Happy to share contact info. I am real and will not flake. Come say hi? Ps that is dave mathews in my photos, not me...happy to send a picture