Just ask if you are genuinely interested.

My Ideal Person My idea person wouldn't not be pushy or demanding. He would be very understanding to my needs and also understanding if I'm not able to make time for him. He is very easy-going has a great sense of humor,has good communication ,Loves life and what is to offer. He is also non- judgmental,drama free,drug free,smoke free,std free. He also takes the time to know you, patient. He also is able to host when I cannot. He also lives locally. Preferably someone that is able to get away when our schedules allow. He is also looking for a long-term friends with benefits.