It's 2016 and time for a complete rewrite of my profile... Let me start by saying that I'm straight. Since picking up a gold membership last year, I've had a ton of interest from guys. Men, save your (virtual) breath; I don't swing that way. Standard Users - Hit me up via my blog... Most of my friends would say I have a fairly easy-going perality. Have a dry sense of humor and a fairly bright guy (I work in IT and recently completed my Masters degree, so I have to have at least two brain cells active at all times :-) ). One of those guys who could probably be on Jeopardy, but never bothered to audition. So, I can carry a conversation and have a vocabulary of more than 20 words. But, at the same time, I like to laugh and usually good for cracking a few jokes when we're together... While I was always in good shape in high school and college, I kinda let myself go over the years. Fortunately, I did something about that a few years back and am in maintenance mode (for the most part). Hitting Planet Fitness three days a week and two hours of roller skating, three times a week for cardio (sure beats two hours on a treadmill ;-) ). I don't generally hang out in the bars, but have no problems with them, as I worked as a bartender for a few years (best...job...ever). Enjoy playing pool, but I'm an average shot at best. Movies and concerts are good, too. I work as an IT consultant/trainer, so I travel quite a bit. I live in Florida, but I'm currently on a long term project in Reston (through at least early 2017, with possible (read likely) extensions) and looking to sample the local cuisine. While most of my engagements provide living accommodations, this project doesn't. So, I'm renting room in Herdon (just to keep costs down), which means that I can't host. I do have a friend in Manassas who can host, and is willing to join in for mfm fun.

My Ideal Person So, what am I looking for?

An opportunity to make some friends and have a little sex along the way. I suspect, that for most of us, it's what we're all really looking for. So, in short, an FWB arrangement would be my preference. You can never have enough friends...

As for the sex, I tend to gravitate toward the more traditional forms, but always up for suggestions and willing to experiment. Can go with slow, tender and passionate, or forceful and aggressive, depending on your mood. Oral sex (getting and giving) is high on my list, although my tongue has a tendency to wander. And, if you have toys, nothing gets me going like watching you play and then joining in...

As for my partner, I would prefer a nice, tight little body to play with, but someone with a little extra padding works, too. None of us are perfect, so I don't expect you to be, either. With that said, if you outweigh me by 20 pounds or more, it's probably a no-go. Sorry, it's just how I am.

I would prefer one-on-one sex, but for those of you looking for MFM, I wouldn't be opposed to having a man in the room or joining us for your pleasure (got a buddy who'd be happy to join). And, definitely no problems with two women

I do appreciate someone who dresses for the occasion. Lingerie, heels, painted nails. A woman who looks like a woman, not just a dude with tits. For my part, I will not show up in a wife beater and gym shorts (unless you ask me to). You deserve better and it's just not my style...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Maybe some other time...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Voyeurism, Leather, Latex, Lingerie (Heels and Hose)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sure. Who hasn't. Megan Fox would be high on the list.
I'm sure I could come up with others, if pressed for
an answer...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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