Who am I? Visions of “The Breakfast Club” flash into my head. Keeping with that theme, I guess I would identify with the character played by Ally Sheedy the best. I can be shy at first, quirky, a little aloof, but I am a beautiful person inside. (Note, without the dandruff.) I love music, pretty much all types. I can be at home at the symphony one night and seeing Rob Zombie the next, which I have done, and everything in between. Enjoy dancing, although I have been told that I am Overtly Caucasian, comedy clubs as well. Like to read, nonfiction for the most part. Cooking is a small hobby and although I am not a “chef” I can hold my own and do enjoy an evening in with a bottle of wine or scotch. So who am I? Can be a lot of things, it depends on who I am with and what is going on? I can be a nerd, a friend, a good listener, a strong confidant. Loyal, hard worker, determined, impactful and a worthy person I am. What I am not is a stereotypical male. I dress well, have manners, speak properly and have respect for the people I hang out with. Women should have the door held open for them and have the car door opened for them just to name a few. Although I enjoy seeing a Colts game, I would rather go to a museum or a play. To put it simply as I have been told by a former girlfriend, “I am the gayest straight man she knows.” So who would like to have some fun?

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