Yes, I know what the purpose of this site is.
No, I don't care, & I'm still going to look for what I'm looking for.
I don't just want a friend with benefits or anonymous no-strings-attached fling.
I'm in a situation that I'm not looking to change any time soon.
However, I no longer receive attention, affection, or anything physical.
I'm very bubbly, happy-go-lucky, outgoing, & warm. Those qualities, in addition to words of affirmation & acts of service, are my love languages, but none are being addressed.
I want someone that I click well with, who can carry on conversations on a multitude of topics, who I can laugh with, share flirty banter with, someone who's not afraid of the butterflies, strings, & feelings.
I'd ultimately like something akin to a side relationship, where we anticipate hearing from each other everyday, texting throughout the day when possible, seeing each other a few times a month in whatever capacity allows.
You could consider me be a bbw, bc I’m thick & kinda chubby. If you’re looking for a tiny, petite girl, it’s not me.
I’m generally most attracted to men who are a little taller with bigger builds (200-300).
I’m not a small girl, so I’m not the most comfortable with shorter or slimmer men.
I’d also probably say I’m looking for someone within my age range, like 35-45, but am open to any around around 30-55.
I’m friendly with & respect everyone. However, I’m interested in heterosexual males. I’m not really looking for bisexual or herteoflexible males or couples. I appreciate any interest, but have to politely decline.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
90% Submissive
83% Vanilla
74% Primal (Prey)
67% Brat
67% Rope bunny
67% Boy/Girl
34% Masochist
34% Switch
33% Experimentalist
30% Non-monogamist
21% Rigger
19% Primal (Hunter)
17% Slave
15% Ageplayer
15% Exhibitionist
14% Pet
13% Dominant
13% Voyeur
6% Brat tamer
6% Sadist
5% Daddy/Mommy
3% Owner
2% Master/Mistress
2% Degrader
0% Degradee
My Ideal Person Bigger, protective, tough guy exterior, but my sweet teddy bear when we’re together.