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Intimidated By A Cock Ring (Toy Review)   by Tara Tainton

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As a world traveler since childhood, Tara Tainton has "been around the world" in the most physical, spiritual, and erotic senses. She's now unleashing her sense of adventure and insatiable sexual appetite on the rest of the world. Through erotic writing and photography, she's discovered her inner exhibitionist as well as her calling as an activist for sexual freedom. She can be found playing daily in her online playground for consenting adults at www.TaraTainton.com or creating bold and brazen designs for her online shop at www.TarasNaughtyShop.com.

Never before had I witnessed a simple cock ring strike a sense of terror in a hot-blooded man. It was just a gift, a rather perfect Christmas gift for the sexually explorative, if you ask me. The new toy would be the answer to my male roommate's prayers. After all, he was the one who'd come to me for advice on how to solve his little sexual dilemma, the one he wasn't ready to admit to the new woman in his life.

I'm that girl that my friends (and even family) think of when they have a sexual question, concern, or curiosity. I write erotica, share my own sexual experiences in an xxx-rated blog, and never blush when the words "cock" or "pussy" come up in conversation at the dinner table. It was just before Christmas when my roommate shared his intimate issue. He was exploring a new sexual partner, getting back into the swing of things after a long drought, and was cursing condom use left and right.

He'd only been in long-term, monogamous relationships before, so condom use had dwindled quickly right after its debut with each partner. This time, my roommate¡¦s more casual play made condoms a must. Besides the usual decrease in feeling and skin-to-skin contact, my desperate roommate found that it was next to impossible to get it up the second or third time around during a night of passion. He just felt numb, and little could be done to revive his condom-suffocated cock after the first round of rousing play.

I couldn't let my reputation suffer. I had to come up with a solution, or at least a suggestion, to solve the problem and enable my roommate to feel like his 25-years-old self again. There had to be something to help stimulate that poor cock despite its disdain for rubbers. It was my own lover who came up with the solution: a vibrating cock ring. Its tight grip on the base of the cock would keep that hard-on in place while the vibrations added new sensation and motivation for ful-filling that wanton woman in bed again and again.

I thought I'd earn "Coolest Roommate of the Century" for not only restoring my roommate's sexual prowess but supplying him with the very tool required. I hopped online and began browsing my favorite online adult shops. I recognized the winner as soon as it appeared on screen in all of its red-hot glory: the Hustler Hot Sex Wireless Vibrating Jel-Lee Cock Ring. It was clear from the image alone that this thing is a lean, mean, cock-hugging, clit-licking, vibrating machine.

The Hustler Hot Sex Cock Ring comes with the tiniest mini vibe that slides inside for an all-over, adjustable speed vibration. It only requires three L1154 or AG13 size batteries but comes packaged with six for instant and long lasting playtime. The product description lists advantages and bonus benefits you just don't want to live without:

--Sculpted Jel-Lee holds your cock in a fiery grip for your most raging erection ever!
--Wireless multi-speed "micro mini" vibrations provide explosive pleasure for both partners
--Textured flames lick her clit for sizzling satisfaction every time
--Flexible stretchy construction for comfortable wear -- one size fits most!
The sex toy was gift-wrapped and waiting to be introduced to its new owner by Christmas. When my roommate beheld the nearly 3-inch high and 2-inch wide cock ring for the first time, he was speechless. I hurried to reassure him that it was the solution to his recent sexual disappointment, but he didn't blink an eye.

I should've known better. He'd never owned a single adult toy in his entire life. He'd never even held a vibrator or dildo to pleasure a partner with. Don't even ask him his thoughts on anal play. That look of full-grown fright on his face made it clear that he'd never be wrapping anything around that cock of his except for those confounded condoms.

Sadly, the Hustler Hot Sex Cock Ring was rarely seen or heard about again. That is, until I recently moved across the country, leaving my easily intimidated roommate back in the Midwest with his lack of desire to try something new. I was unpacking my luggage when the infamous gift suddenly reappeared out of nowhere, still in its original packaging. Apparently, even my former roommate realized that such a creation must be permitted to live out its divine purpose.

My lover and I didn't hesitate to come to the aid of that divine purpose. The large cock ring is soft, even supple, and the jelly-formed flames are tipped with the slightest silky knobs. Sure, it¡¦s the largest cock ring we've ever seen, but it's very smooth, giving, and promises a lot of pleasure. My lover slipped it over his soft cock with relative ease, fitting it nicely against himself. He selected a low setting on the mini vibe and inserted it inside.

The cock ring wasn't the only thing vibrating due to that powerful little vibrator. If only someone had told me sooner that I could so easily have a real, live, vibrating cock to play with! With a few, well-lubed strokes, my lover's cock was filling my pussy; and the cock ring was gently introduced to my clit.

Hustler's molded Jel-Lee device is surprisingly soft. In the heat of the moment, I couldn't detect the difference between my lover's skin and the sensual feel of the cock ring. I found the new pressure in all the right spots utterly incredible. With the cock ring between us, so much more of my pussy was getting attention in the old, man-on-top position. The usual feel of his cock inside and his pubic bone hitting mine was replaced with the all over sensation of a vibrating marvel moving in and out of me while my entire pussy, inner lips and outer, was lapped and teased by those magical, malleable flames. My lover's cock had turned into a mechanical toy itself.

When we turned up the speed, I could feel my lover's cock pulsating deep inside me. I clung to his backside, holding him tightly against me for longer periods between strokes as the vibrating sensation increasingly sped my way to orgasm. With the extra padding between our bodies, we could pound each other with greater gusto without getting the usual skin-on-skin burn from too much rubbing or even his long cock hitting against my cervix in that not-so-pleasant way. As for my lover sporting the new cock ring, he's in love with the way the vibrations travel all the way through his shaft and down to his balls for continuous stimulation.

The Hustler Hot Sex Cock Ring is our new favorite toy. We've just discovered another way to go longer, harder, and faster without any after-sex irritation. The mutually pleasing vibrations make it all the easier to achieve that elusive point of simultaneous orgasm. This isn't just a great toy to add to your usual play; it's also a secret weapon for introducing to your bodies after the first round to overcome sensory overload and keep on going. I'm on the hunt for new sex toys to experience. The more intimidating, the better.

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