The Fine Art Of Kissing  

GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1331 posts
8/10/2018 7:09 pm
The Fine Art Of Kissing

I LOVE to kiss and I’ve been told that I’m good at it…..(I choose to believe them)....lol

To me….kissing is only the beginning of foreplay, and a pleasant one at that. But it most certainly needs to be with someone (for me at least) that:

A. I am interested in, and have some feelings for, and

B. With someone that knows how to do it properly.

I do not like to feel like I’ve been slobbered all over,or gagged by an overzealous tongue.

For me...nips and nibbles are okay, as long as they are gentle and don’t draw blood.

So below are a few “suggestions” to perhaps help make the experience more pleasant.....

At our ages….most of us probably have a pretty good idea about the how to’s - but maybe some of the younguns (or just those less experienced) could use some pointers…..lol




Kissing is one of life’s greatest pleasures that can be shared by two. But not everyone is a perfect kissing match, and certainly not all kissers are created equal.

Sadly, we encounter over a lifetime of kissing quite a few kissers who make elementary—or truly awful—kissing faux pas, and it makes us wish that everyone with a pair of lips got their own user’s manual.

Wouldn’t it be great if there was a mandatory kissing politeness class in every high school?

Here students would learn that kissing isn’t a face-chewing contest. You do not get points for trying to box the tonsils with your tongue. Licking your lips too suggestively before a kiss looks really scary and gross. And above all, kissing is something you do together, rather than to or at another person.

It might be a very long time until kissing etiquette becomes required for graduation into the real world. Until then, there are a few things to know that will keep you and those you kiss happy to be smooched.

Show the following list to anyone you know who might benefit from the advice it offers. Even a friend who’s dating someone they just discovered is a bad kisser—it might give them some ideas.

KISSING DO's and DONT'S

* Beautiful, brushed teeth, fresh breath, and supple, moisturized lips make you a delight to kiss. Anything less is a drag.

* It’s okay to pull away and take a break from kissing without saying anything.
It’s okay for someone to want to stop completely and offer no explanation.
You can talk about it later.

* It’s not okay to expect a kiss in return for anything. Kisses are gifts, not
currency.

* Cradling your partner’s head and face feels wonderful. As long as you’re not
trying to prevent escape or contributing to claustrophobia.

* Kissing isn’t the checkered flag and starter gun to feel up your date. Lip
contact is not an invitation to ass grabbing or unhooking a bra. The good bits
aren’t going anywhere, and it is in your best interest to take your time.

* A kiss does not signify a willingness to have sex, ever—no matter what kind of
kiss.

* Never approach a kiss with an open mouth, or with an extended tongue.

* Never open your mouth wider than your kissing partner’s lips.

* Poking with your tongue is annoying. You are not trying to make a phone call.
The mingling of a willing tongue is okay, if your kissing partner is willing.

Not everyone will like the things you like, and that’s okay. You may love to have your sensitive ears licked and breathed on, but he might hate it with a passion. Be open to all kissing styles.

Whenever you’re in doubt about how things feel for your kissing partner, or even if it’s the right time to kiss, ask. Your partner will be happy you care enough to ask.

If anyone has any other suggestions or words of advice other than those listed...Or if you disagree with any of the advice....feel free to share!















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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/10/2018 7:18 pm

Mmmmmmm......I LOVE to kiss AND smile.

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TicklePlease 50F  
10976 posts
8/10/2018 8:02 pm

*sigh

sometimes I'd like a kissing date... just kissing. I don't think I could ever get enough!

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woodsnwaterdells 45M
11 posts
8/10/2018 9:06 pm

Yes, it’s always better to kiss someone with nice fresh breath as opposed to someone who’s finished her fifth pack of cigarettes that day. Interestingly, some are so detached from sex nowadays that kissing can be more intimate than intercourse.


R_stud88 21M
14 posts
8/10/2018 9:45 pm

Interesting read, kissing is way too important to be ignored!!


StudlyNHung69 36M
21 posts
8/10/2018 10:06 pm

very good post...


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 57M
2252 posts
8/11/2018 2:21 am

O, so on this topic, how do nyou gals feel about kissing a man with no teeth?


seems6666 47F  
1661 posts
8/11/2018 5:31 am

My last kisser was a bit slobbery... I HATE that with a passion,.. so I told him, I prefer soft gentle kissing,,, he took the hint and now does as he's told
" Cradling your partner’s head and face feels wonderful. As long as you’re not
trying to prevent escape or contributing to claustrophobia"


pocogato12 66F  
21158 posts
8/11/2018 5:36 am

This is worthy of a full blown poster in color. I, too, have been told I am the best kisser they ever met ( and like you I chose to believe it). The worst thing is a smoker followed by a tongue poker/jabber/thruster who wants to find out just how tight your gag reflex is. And kissing is an huge turn on and can last for hours when done right with feeling

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Story435 70M  
2046 posts
8/11/2018 6:18 am

I love kissing and it can be very nice. I always wait for the other person to show what she want in a kiss and go from there. My gf and I really get into kissing damn she is good!
Butch


Kalbi54 63M  
1000 posts
8/11/2018 7:52 am

Hmmm, I need to practice


papis_baby_girl 42F  
4032 posts
8/11/2018 10:25 am

there was a guy in my past who was the ultimate kisser... never have I been kissed the same since him.

Wish he could give lessons...

It's so disappointing when you meet a terrible kisser.

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/11/2018 6:38 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    *sigh

    sometimes I'd like a kissing date... just kissing. I don't think I could ever get enough!

    Love your comment meme!
I hear you! Sometimes just kissing would be a welcome thing. To not feel like you have to take it further all the time.

Thanks....I liked the meme, it's kinda sweet....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/11/2018 6:41 pm

    Quoting woodsnwaterdells:
    Yes, it’s always better to kiss someone with nice fresh breath as opposed to someone who’s finished her fifth pack of cigarettes that day. Interestingly, some are so detached from sex nowadays that kissing can be more intimate than intercourse.
I absolutely agree...kissing someone with fresh breath is most welcome! My ex was a smoker and eventually I just stopped kissing him honestly.

To me kissing is quite intimate....maybe not quite as intimate as sex, but a darn close second for sure.

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/11/2018 6:44 pm

    Quoting R_stud88:
    Interesting read, kissing is way too important to be ignored!!
I'm glad you enjoyed....I agree that kissing is very important and enjoyable with the right partner!

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/11/2018 6:45 pm

Thank you....I'm glad you enjoyed!

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/11/2018 7:23 pm

    Quoting LakeRidgeBBWSeek:
    O, so on this topic, how do nyou gals feel about kissing a man with no teeth?
That's a tough one....I suppose it would depend on each individual woman how she felt about that.

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let_me_see1 59M  
573 posts
8/12/2018 5:32 am

Very good post on kissing. I feel even better now, because I agree with all the pointers that were outlined and I believe (and have been told) that I pretty much adhere to them. I love to kiss and to me the slower, the softer, the tenderer the meeting of lips is the best and most sensuous. And if you can't kiss correctly or are over zealous, then how good will anything else be with that partner. Great post and if you ever want to get together for some practice, I am here to help! LOL

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/12/2018 7:57 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    This is worthy of a full blown poster in color. I, too, have been told I am the best kisser they ever met ( and like you I chose to believe it). The worst thing is a smoker followed by a tongue poker/jabber/thruster who wants to find out just how tight your gag reflex is. And kissing is an huge turn on and can last for hours when done right with feeling
Thanks....kissing is such an integral part of foreplay to me. It is a huge turn on with the right partner!

I agree that kissing a smoker is not pleasant. My ex was one, and after awhile I just didn't bother anymore. There were other reasons for that as well....but the ashtray breath played into it....

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/12/2018 8:03 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    I love kissing and it can be very nice. I always wait for the other person to show what she want in a kiss and go from there. My gf and I really get into kissing damn she is good!
    Butch
Letting your partner take the lead sometimes can be the way to go, especially in a new relationship.

You get to see their "style" of kissing, and if there are some things you don't particularly like, you could maybe give a few gentle hints to improve the experience. Hopefully they are open to suggestions, if needed.....lol

Glad to hear your gf is good at kissing....makes for much more fun!

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/12/2018 8:04 pm

    Quoting Kalbi54:
    Hmmm, I need to practice
LOL.....you know what they say - practice makes perfect....haha

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/12/2018 8:18 pm

    Quoting papis_baby_girl:
    there was a guy in my past who was the ultimate kisser... never have I been kissed the same since him.

    Wish he could give lessons...

    It's so disappointing when you meet a terrible kisser.
I haven't honestly kissed a lot of different men, but I also have one in my past that was perhaps the ultimate kisser. Sadly I had some doubts that perhaps he was giving "lessons" to other women.....

He actually used that particular skill to come up with his handle on some sites.....lol

It is disappointing to meet a terrible kisser....especially if there are otherwise things you like about them. I'm not sure I would have the patience to be an instructor.....lol

Actually thinking about this, there was also another guy in my past that was awesome.... I'm going back to our teen years....but he was excellent.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1477 posts
8/12/2018 8:31 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Very good post on kissing. I feel even better now, because I agree with all the pointers that were outlined and I believe (and have been told) that I pretty much adhere to them. I love to kiss and to me the slower, the softer, the tenderer the meeting of lips is the best and most sensuous. And if you can't kiss correctly or are over zealous, then how good will anything else be with that partner. Great post and if you ever want to get together for some practice, I am here to help! LOL
Thanks...it was an article I found, but it did seem to offer some good advice....lol

Gentle kisses are wonderful,enjoyable and senuous, but I think sometimes a more passionate meeting of the lips can be exciting.....as long as no one is getting injured.....lol

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