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With some people you can just talk hour after hour, sometimes you don't even have to finish sentences.
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Chemistry, pheromones, all the above. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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It could be both. There could be a chemistry where you both are operating on the same wavelengths. Some speakers are just really good at "reading" their audience. It's definitely a skill some people have innately (or learn over time).
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I think it's a mix. Long silent pauses..................................aren't ideal 
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It starts with a good vocabulary and the ability to adjust it. To use and know where to use uncommon idioms to peak interest and get someone's attention.Stay away from clicheanguage that is being beaten to within inches of their own demise from social networks,dating sites and the like. Remember to indent,did I just write that?Anyway.Really the most important part is to make eye contact and LISTEN to what the other party is saying and for God's sake bite your tongue when it comes to correcting them.One or two tops. Oh, and try to do it in person.It increases your effectiveness 100%! Using more than all the road!
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Oh yes - I have a friend who knows how to connect that way. When I first met him I had such a crush! I don't know if it was chemistry, or just that it was so uncommon to talk with someone who I felt really "got" me.  
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AHHH, you discovered my secret, GRIN. The key is to 'LISTEN" when others speak, and they will give you the clues you need to know them well enough to give an 'educated" response to them that will win them over! OR make them run away with their asses on fire! Can go either way !
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A silver tongued devil!!! 
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That is a good question. It's hard to tell sometimes. But I think I like to believe in the good in most people and that they are charismatic. Cheers! ?*
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I'd chuck it down to chemistry my lady After all, what would make an eloquent person get into the game ? Cheers - P
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Chemistry or gifted speaker? Things that make you go hmmmm. When you boil it all down there are people out there that possess the "Gift Gab" and can blend into any situation, anywhere, anyplace, anytime. Those people are always fun to be around regardless. If I may for a moment put on my "Chefs Hat" ( and nothing else....lol.) Toss in a little bit of good vocabulary, a dash of easy on the eyes, and a smidgen of intrigue and let it simmer for a little bit while stirring occasionally so all the flavors have time to blend properly. Let stand for an hour before serving. When I serve this dish I like to look right into the consumers eyes as I reveal the ingredients and explain how they work together and how each taste bud (another sensory organ) should explode as you consume causing salivation and the lust for more. (This is Chemistry developing as two people engage in conversation and allow openness to either bring more in depth conversation, slightly less or NONE at ALL. its all chemistry and once 2 people allow uninhibited exploration of any desire into the mix is when the chemistry goes from intrigue to physical interaction. From there they just need to digest and see if they have room for desert. A talented speaker can draw your attention to something for a little while but sooner or later that something just becomes "blah" and we move on to the next speaker and so on......until we find that something we are drawn into once again.
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A listener will be much attentive to what someone is saying if that someone can demonstrate 'I know what you're thinking; I get you in a way no other person has.' Convincing levels of sincerity, along with a clear message that they're giving you their all. 'You're worthy of my time and very important to me.' Finally, comes the value proposition - a very subtle but clear message of what they can do for you that no one else has ever done. It may sound like a line, but I mean it when I tell a woman that she'll never have to wonder how I feel about her. Every woman I've ever met wants the same thing: To be heard and valued.
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I'd say if you're really attracted that it's probably a little bit of both. Sometimes it's about knowing what the right things to say and sometimes it's the person who says them regardless to what they say. A charismatic speaker typically has some understanding of what their audience wants. A basic desire. Do you thing this person knows what you want? That might answer the question of charisma vs chemistry
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I'd call it chemistry. Ohhh to be that guy for you!! Let39s Have Some CockTail Fun, on HNW MNO, on HNW Aerial Views of Wonderful Beaches [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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